Plenty of folks in and out of church might think a minister is the last person they’d want to talk to (even though I am pretty nice). So let me share four truths about pastoral counselling with Canterbury United Community Church. 

1. You don’t need to be a Christian. You don’t need to practice a religion, or be a person of faith. 

2. You don’t have to be in crisis. Of course, it’s helpful to share when you’re facing trouble or you’re overwhelmed, but often folks stop in simply to connect and feel a little less alone. You can count on me to listen compassionately, without judgement, and without any agenda.  

3. In a pastoral visit, you don’t have to “go deep,” but you can. I let you lead with what you want or need to talk about. (Although I do have some experience with matters of faith). I will not push you to pray or believe or even visit the church. 

4. Our conversation, and even the fact of our meeting, are entirely confidential.  

 For me, pastoral visiting is deeply fulfilling. I love hearing people’s stories, inviting people to reflect on their own values, ideas, feelings, and relationships. Our conversations inform my faith; as I get to know individuals and what’s important to them, I grow in understanding and compassion, and grow into my humanity.   

~ In Peace, Becky